This holiday season, I may be embracing all the festive vibes, but when it comes to decking the halls, I’m feeling a bit indifferent. The mental checklist of climbing into the attic, unboxing decorations, sorting through them, and transforming the house into a winter wonderland feels overwhelming. The mere thought of this process is enough to make my jaw hit the floor.
I’m not alone in feeling this way, especially during a season where time is a precious commodity. Picture this: my family and I are seven months postpartum, navigating through the emotional whirlwind of our baby’s surgeries and the juggling act of caring for a toddler while growing my group practice. Time has become a focal point, and the weight of its significance is palpable.
Motherhood has reshaped my relationship with time, highlighting its value. The freedom to use time as I please has shifted to a careful dance around the needs of my children and my husband’s schedule. There are no more impromptu gym sessions; everything must align with the family agenda.
I’ve learned that how I spend my time has a direct impact on my emotional well-being. Overcommitting or saying yes to things that don’t resonate with my desires leads to a misuse of time, leaving me stretched thin. Our me-time as moms is precious, and allocating it to areas that don’t fill our cups leaves us feeling depleted.
While I adore holiday decorations, this year, we’re opting for simplicity, focusing on traditions and minimalistic Christmas décor. A chat with my husband revealed he felt similarly about holiday lights. We acknowledged the season we’re in, with surgeries and a hectic schedule, and decided on what would best serve our needs. Seasons change, and what feels right this year may evolve.
Here’s what we’re doing different this year:
- 25 Days of Christmas Movies: We’re cozying up and cuddling together, and I’m excited to share some of my favorite Christmas movies with my boys.
- Polar Express Experience: We’re creating our own Polar Express experience by whipping up homemade hot chocolate, packing warm blankets, and driving through San Antonio’s winter wonderlands on the weekends.
- Matching Christmas Pajamas: We are matching with our pajamas this year, and nothing is cozier than pajamas and cool weather.
Now, I’m genuinely excited about this holiday season! Embracing simplicity, we’re creating new traditions and exploring Christmas activities around San Antonio. Living in such a vibrant city allows us to skip the elaborate home decorations without missing out on the communal festive spirit found in community events. Cheers to a season of cherished moments and new traditions!
